
All Afternoon
by: Susan Kleinman
April 21, 2026, VOlume36 Books
320 Pages
It is a difficult thing to be a woman, although the exact details of the struggle vary based on person place and time. For me, it’s about the pressure to try and do it all – career woman, domestic Goddess, hobbies that could be a second job. For Mariyln Weisfeld, protagonist of Susan Kleinman’s debut novel All Afternoon, it is about realizing she has given up her dreams in service of someone else’s. To add insult to injury, that person is failing spectacularly and the rest of her peers are reclaiming their lives, leaving Marilyn in the dust.
Kleinman’s debut is set in a 1970’s orthodox Jewish community in NJ. Marilyn has followed traditional expectations by giving up her promising creative writing career after marrying an economics graduate student. She dove into housekeeping and child rearing as a way of keeping up her end of the marital bargain, while her spouse was supposed to be broadening her intellectual horizons with his big academic career, and providing monetarily for the family. Unfortunately, his career was actually far less promising than Marilyns, landing the Weisfeld’s in a small obscure college town where most of their contemporaries in the Jewish community have far more prestigious and/or lucrative careers. Marilyn might still have been happy, except the reader quickly ascertains that her spouse is a total jerk who uses her for domestic labor while mocking her in front of his snooty academic peers. He’s the kind of man who thinks he should control all decisions because he controls the cash flow, and takes out out his work related frustrations on his family. It’s the kind of toxic relationship that should have ended years ago but is still puttering on due to the children and societal expectations.
Speaking of societal expectations, the women in Marilyn’s town are broadening their horizons, trying to turn their domestic pursuits into careers. It’s a trend currently known as the side hustle. However, as seen through Marilyn’s eyes, these women are petty and small, without any knowledge about how to actual turn a profit at running a business. They also fall right into the trap of early feminists in thinking that anyone who wants something different is automatically a fool. They exclude Marilyn from their groups on the basis that “she wouldn’t be interested,” and one even chides Marilyn for not going back to school because she hasn’t taken the time to learn that unlike herself, Marilyn actually graduated from college – with honors. I suspect several of these women could be the protagonist’s of their own very interesting stories, but in All Afternoon they serve as reminder that there is no one correct way to be a woman, and no one perfect life journey. Indeed they have taken Marilyn’s chosen vocation – cooking, cleaning, etc. -and decided it has no value unless a dollar value can be assigned to it. Not, overall, a great step ahead for women.
Marilyn herself has a much more exciting and vital private life than her neighbors realize. After a disastrous dinner party she reconnects with a friend of her husbands who is a famous writer. Her reminds her of her early career and encourages her to pick up her pen again. Over their enfolding afternoons together, the reader quickly realizes that this man should have been the love of Marilyn’s life. Not her overbearing, chauvinist of a spouse. But Marilyn is too wise and too Orthodox for an affair. Instead, she must sort out the pieces of her family and find a way to integrate it all.
I can empathize. The social dynamics among women Marilyn notes are still alive and kicking. Except now one is expected to be all the things, and to do them flawlessly. #TradWife is trending – but make no mistake, these women are a business unto themselves, monetizing their perfect domestic performance through their social media presence. As a writer, I was surprised to learn that even in traditionally published spaces, writers are currently expected to take on many roles that have nothing to do with writing. The most successful learn to tune out all that noise, focus on what they enjoy, and skip (or outsource) the rest. All Afternoon came with one of the most professional promo kits I have ever received (I admittedly don’t receive that many kits containing more than just the book and some stickers), and I suspect the author designed it all herself. If that is true, she has a real gift. As someone who highly empathizes with Marilyn’s love of baking her own mishloach manot, but has very limited skills for design, I would have zero hesitations about hiring whoever put this package together. Hopefully, this is a sign that we are moving forward as a group and are embracing each others talents and life choices.
All Afternoon also depicts a rising feminism in Judaism, as evidenced by the spread of Bat mitzvahs. Many modern female scholars are asking the same questions a frustrated Marilyn asks of her stunned family when she interrupts their bible trivia game – Anyone know the name of the wives of all these biblical figures? No? Why not? Indeed there are far fewer named female characters in the Bible than men, and far fewer works of biblical scholarship from women who have traditionally been exclude from such pursuits. Women today aim to bridge that gap. Much as Marilyn seeks to reclaim her own existence as a unique individual and not just the unnamed “mother of, wife of, sister of”.
All Afternoon is the kind of book you have to sit and think with. It reads quickly, but it poses many questions for the reader to ask of themselves. I may not agree with all of Marilyn’s choices, but also can’t say that I wouldn’t have done similarly. I respected her unwillingness to upturn her children’s lives and I highly identified with her desire not to be defined by a man – even a good and kind one. I’d like to see more from Kleinman, even if she doesn’t have the time to make adorable promo packages (I kind of hope she does, though). I’d love to hear more of her thoughts about women both in family and in Judaism. Let’s just say, if I was starting a book club, she’d be one of the first people I’d invite.
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